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College recruiting, honestly.

No services to sell. No D1 fantasies. The recruiting process as it actually works, sport by sport and level by level. Written by a Division III head coach with two decades of recruiting experience.

By sport

The recruiting infrastructure, sport by sport.

Baseball

Baseball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college baseball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid is hearing 'next level' from travel coaches and showcase organizers.

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Basketball

Basketball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college basketball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid is hearing 'next level' from AAU coaches, high-school assistants, and trainers.

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Football — Tackle

Football Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college football recruiting, by level. Read this if your kid plays high school football and people are starting to talk about 'the next level.'

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Hockey

Hockey Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college hockey recruiting, by level. Why the path runs through juniors, what the USHL and NTDP mean, and the brutal scholarship math at D1.

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Lacrosse — Boys · Lacrosse — Girls

Lacrosse Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college lacrosse recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays travel ball and is hearing about NLF, top recruits lists, and verbal commits.

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Soccer

Soccer Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college soccer recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays club soccer and is hearing about ID camps and ECNL exposure.

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Softball

Softball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college softball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays travel ball and is hearing about exposure tournaments and 'the showcase summer.'

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Volleyball

Volleyball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know

The honest version of college volleyball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays club volleyball and is hearing about national qualifiers and verbal commits.

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Timeline by grade

When things actually happen, by 8th through 12th grade.

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NCAA Eligibility

Eligibility Center registration, core courses, GPA, test scores.

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Talking to coaches

Email, phone, social media. The do's, the don'ts, the cringe stories.

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NIL basics

Name, Image, Likeness for high schoolers. State-by-state reality.

  • NIL basics for high schoolers

    Name, Image, Likeness for HS athletes. State-by-state legal status, what it actually pays, and the eligibility-killing mistakes to avoid.

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Verbal commits

What "verbal commit" actually means and what it doesn't.

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Academics & GPA

The variable that matters more than every showcase combined.

  • Sports scholarships: the honest math

    What percentage of high school athletes actually get college sports scholarships? The real numbers, by sport, by division. Plus the academic-aid math most families miss.

A note on the byline

These pieces are written by a Division III head coach with two decades of recruiting experience. Published for parents, not for sale. Email [email protected] with corrections, questions, or requests for sport pages we haven't written yet.